My son’s father has been the only.man that can make me have a gspot.orgasim /squirt and he loved it. But we are.not together and a lot of people are clueless about it. I can’t squirt on my own with or without toys.I have tired! LOL. my ex did it with his fingers. I’m kind of talking to this.guy now and how can I tell him that I like this and it needs.to happen otherwise its not worth it for.me to mess.around or have sex if I don’t have an orgasim….