A Complete Guide To The G-Spot. To try to find your G-spot on your own, first smooth onto your index finger, slide it into your vagina, then curl the tip towards your belly button, as though you’re beckoning someone to ‘come hither’. Rub your finger slowly back and forth, side to side, and in circling motions, paying attention to how your insides feel and respond; if you find a patch that seems puffier, harder, bumpier or ridged, you may well be in the right place. Insert your middle finger as well, if you like a fuller feeling.